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I’m so inspired, “I just can’t hide it, I’m about to lose control & I think I like it!”
Did you notice we’ve been under construction – Shifts eyes left, then right admiring the NEW WEBSITE!
The past few years have been bumpy for me & those who are close to me, but I’m FINALY feeling GOOD, which mean that I can get back to doing what I love. ♥
I can return to creating, sharing knowledge, teaching and brainstorming with the Second Life community, and other (secret) communities too, but I’ll leave those secrets for another post.
Fear is a funny thing & loneliness is it’s best friend, those two move in and the next thing you know BOOM! isolation. The WORST part- is not the depression that follows but the lack of inspiration, motivation, and ultimately your creativity vanishes.
You know, for a while I thought… Well, I thought a lot of things, like the lie I’d tell myself every day, “No one likes you.” Ugh! Through that lie, I gave myself a justified reason, NOT to go out! To sit alone and “work.” I mean really, those people are distracting aren’t they?Sure, it worked… For a while, until it spiraled and suddenly I was uninspired, I was alone, and I lost all motivation to do much of anything really. I stopped trusting people. I became became suspicious, and judgmental. Eventually I stopped trusting me. I mean I could not even walk out the door without questioning “Did I leave the stove on?” Honestly, it got pretty bad.
Have you ever found yourself in the same spot? If you have then you know it SUCKS!
If you’re there now, hopefully this will inspire you to change it. After all, only you can make the choice to change you, even your depression is a choice. “I’ve got the right to lay here, I’m DEPRESSED!”
I talk about these experiences more in depth at the Sunday “Mastermind Meet-ups” In Second Life. I’ve hosted these meet-ups for a few months now and I have to say, the creatives who come in and share their struggles on their paths to excellence, they are AWESOME! Do you want to get out of a funk FAST? Then GET OUT!
If you’ve never attended a Mastermind Meetup I welcome you too. We’ll be rebooting the program this June , we’ll meet every Sunday at 5pm SLT for 8 weeks! At minimum- y
ou’ll get out, but I bet my left pinky you’ll get more than that, you’ll get inspired .If a Mastermind group does not sound like your kind of fun then I encourage you to get around other people who inspire you, Get moving on something that is meaningful TO YOU! -
Tis the Season to Redecorate!
Breathtaking views from across the grid in #Secondlife.
The Galley @Cafe Make is on SALE this week!
All photography by Wynd Ling is L$180 & comes framed in a 100% mesh custom frame.
Visit Cafe’Make @ Wyndavere City
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Do You Have a New Year’s Resolution to do more?
It’s that time of year again where we all get ready, get set, GO! loaded with wishes & goals and that’s EXACTLY why Wyndaveres created the “Big Idea HUD.”
This HUD, Available in Second Life, illiminates the need for Notecards, scratch paper, napkins, text documents and Google Docs while in SecondLife.
Are you tired of tabbing out of Second Life to write a quick note, losing post-its and tossing away the peice fo scratch paper onyl to realise later it had your BEST idea written on the back?
If you’re like me, full of ideas yet a bit scatter-brained the “Big Idea HUD” is for you!
Below are some of “The Big Idea HUDS” features:
- e-mail capable hud send all your ideas to yourself!
- super fast script Just 1 script
- easy to use hud with paging system
- Note keeper holds up to 90+ notes
- easily add remove and add to existing ideas
Visit Wyndaveres Stores here:
Stores
https://marketplace.secondlife.com/stores/31298 Market Placehttp://maps.secondlife.com/secondlife/Ren%20Faire/187/73/30 In Second Life
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Mastermind Workshop Intro Night ! Oct. 7 2018
Wyndaveres Mastermind Workshop Introduction Night Happening October 7th
@ 5:00 pm SLT (pst) @ CafeMake in Wyndavere City, Second Life
8 Week design workshop – Master your mind to turn your dreams into reality.
Overview
Are you like me? A creative mastermind with a brain full of ideas,but struggle to follow through on your goals? That’s why I created Wyndavere’s Mastermind Design Workshop.
We are all genius’ but no one succeeds at ANYTHING alone. Isolation is the #1 reason most people fail to reach their goals. When one person, that’s right one, believes in you, your chance to succeed go up substantially.
The support of Masterminds
give you the mind-power of the many and the courage to succeed!
Benefits
- Rewire your brain using neuroplasticity. Change your mindset,learn tools,identify fears, challenge limiting beliefs and reassociate experiences to build self-confidence & create new habits.
- Support. We’re in this together! You help me while I help you. We’ll lift each other up on bad days,brainstorm ideas & tackle problems to keep you and me moving forward!
- Plan effectively WITHOUT a lengthy TO-DO list!
- Exclusive access to the Mastermind Discord Group to maintain support even AFTER you’ve completed the program.
Step into the studio and let’s face your fears while you build your confidence to achieve your goals and we celebrate your successes TOGETHER ! Join today and start living your dreams!
Contact Wynd Ling @ Wyndaveres.com/contact or inworld @ Wynd Ling
Mastermind Meetups are Sundays @ 5pm-6:30 SLT (pst) @CafeMake in Second Life.
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Mastermind time!
We’re kicking things off at 7am and again at 5pm SLT (PST)
Sick and tired of feeling like a loser? Never getting the things done you know you were destined to do? Or does fear got you shaking in the corner unable to move?
Become a Mastermind and we’ll surround you with the support you need to get stuff done and make your dreams realities….or virtual realities too.
See you @ CafeMake in SecondLife!
These sessions are the beta version of an 8 part workshop provided to the residents of SecondLife FREE (for a limited time)
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Mastermind Workshop Promo edition
A whole new, updated Mastermind Workshop Promo Edition.
This workshop is 8 weeks long meeting twice each Sunday and is provided to the residents of SecondLife FREE of charge (those tips appreciated.)
Gain the support of a team while you reach for your dreams and achieve your goals!
Love helping others but not quite ready to chase your own dreams? This workshop is for you too become part of the cheering squad, brainstorm ideas, give contacts, connection and feedback and be a valued part of our team!
Mastermind Workshops are hosted in Second Life @ CafeMake on Sunday 7am + Sunday 5pm
Bring your notebook, your desires to change, and your energy! See you all there,
Wynd
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Reminder 6pm SLT (PST) Mastermind #3
Session 2 of the day 6pm SLT (PST) @CafeMake in SecondLife
We’ll be brainstorming to help our fellow masterminds come up with ways to reach their dreams.
Worksheet from last week found here
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Mastermind Meetup #3 Dreamscaping
Mastermind Meetup #2 recap & Mastermind #3
Another successful meetup! Thank you all for coming.
At Sunday’s, July 1st Mastermind Meetup we delve deep into the psychology of the artistic, entrepreneurial mind, by asking one Question.
What drives you?
We defined the Differences of Mattering,Belonging & Safety driven action & inaction. Each Mastermind told us what drives them so that the rest of the group can make sure they are responding in a way that is helpful and encouraging to You.
When you receive the type of support you need your mind stays open,receptive and totally creative!
We also asked…
What’s your dream? What’s your obstacle?
Each Mastermind presented their dream and the obstacles keeping them from achieving that dream. Some dreamed of designing video games, while others to build museums, each having unique obstacles: confidence, procrastination, time, skills. Not surprisingly, most obstacles are those that live in our minds.
Imagine you are sitting there and you think “OMG I have the best idea!”
We’ve all been there, in the excitement and the thrills of a creative breakthrough, the moment when the little hairs on the back of your neck stand on end as the fabulous idea seems to suddenly appear out of nowhere in your Eureka Moment.
Personally, I think this is what Heaven is.
Unfortunately, moments later, your critter brain chimes in as self doubt sets in.
“Who do you think you are?” “You don’t have time for this.” Or my personal recording “ Great Idea! yeah… for someone else.” The initial thoughts are followed by ALL reasons why you can’t do it.
You can thank your primal brain for this as it does not care what you dream to do, it’s job is to protect you and safety lives in the comfort zone, not in the creative realm of change. But we can’t place all the blame on your brain, you can also thank adults who poisoned your childlike mind with those negative recordings. Think about it, why on earth would you in your right mind speak to yourself in such a way? Someone must have put those doubts there in the first place.
Take aways:
- Support your fellow Masterminds on their terms meeting their needs, but you must first know what those terms are. What’s your driver? Is it Safety, Belonging or Mattering?
- Realise your brain will trick you into doing nothing, it’s job is to protect you so you’ll have to fight again it if you want to succeed.
For next Sunday’s Mastermind Meetup July 8th, please complete your Dream Planner worksheet
Name your dream, describe emotional reactions you’ll get to achieving that dream, List a few role models who have done Exactly or nearly exactly what you dream to do, and lastly name the tangible target when do you know you have achieved your dream?
Can’t wait to see you all there, Dream big friends!
Next Mastermind Meetup: Sunday July 8,2018
6am-7am SLT session 1 + 6pm-7pm SLT session 2 @ Cafe’ Make, Wyndavere City
Please join the Wyndavere City Second Life group or follow us on Twitter, Subscribo,or @ Wyndaveres.com to keep up to date on future events. Upon joining the group send a quick IM to Wynd Ling and request a “Mastermind” title. I look forward to seeing you all there!
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What is a Mastermind Meetup?
Mastermind Meetups are discussion based workshops where the participants (Masterminds) work together to give each other the support we need to achieve our goals and dreams.
We all started as big thinkers, dreamers, genius’ but somewhere along our walk in “reality” an adult in our lives, perhaps a teacher or parent, friend or lover thought they would “save” us and tell us directly or indirectly, “give it up kid!” Unfortunately, we believed these adults in our lives (assuming they knew better) & without questioning their reasoning we gave up. “You’re right Joe, I don’t know what I was thinking!? I should go give up this fantasy and go find a real job.”
If you’ve never had the support you need to succeed I invite you to come make a New Family with the Masterminds.
These workshops not only designed to give you support but also a safe place for you to dream big with plenty of cheers and praise along the way to reaching your milestones, and the energy of a group where You belong.
Lastly, and quite important, you’ll learn tools to help you succeed.
- Rewire your brain through neuroplasticity. you’ll learn how to get past the bad days using psychology to dispel limiting beliefs, create new habits & build confidence.
- Plan your dreams and make them real through tailored lessons in dream planning with useful worksheets & idea generating sessions(brainstorming.)
- Learn to work smarter…not harder. by making connections that will save you time. No one ever succeeded at ANYTHING alone so don’t think you will either! You’ll need contacts, knowledge, and the mind-power of the many to succeed.
Mastermind Meetups are held every Sunday 7am SLT (PST) & 5pm SLT (PST) @ CafeMake with other venues coming soon! Once attending you’ll also be given an invite to join us on our Discord Channel giving you one more way to stay in touch with fellow Masterminds.
If you’re ready to take real action & go for your dreams I invite you to join us this Sunday at the “Mastermind Meetup” in Secondlife.
Be in the know!
Please join the Wyndavere City Second Life group or follow us on Twitter, Subscribo,or @ Wyndaveres.com to keep up to date on future events. Upon joining the group send a quick IM to Wynd Ling and request a “Mastermind” title. I look forward to seeing you all there!
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Reminder: Mastermind Meetup #2
Reminder: Mastermind Meetup Sunday July 1st.
Session 1 @ 6am-7am SLT (PST) Session 2 @ 6pm-7pm SLT (PST) join us at https://maps.secondlife.com/secondlife/Ren%20Faire/230/59/36
We’ll be discussing drivers, Dream planning, and obstacles. These are group discussions so plan to participate, come armed with a dream!
